DIFFERENCES

have you ever noticed how people have an irrational need for others to be just like them? They want people to think and do things the way they do. They show a definite preference for those who have attitudes and perspectives similar to their own.

Friction occurs when this need is not met. All too often, people encounter others who have different ideas and opinions. Sometimes, the differences are in terms of beliefs, values and political ideologies. The feeling of irritation sets in. Then, they feel discomfort, and after a while discomfort becomes resentment.

This is not in accordance with the Tao. The teachings of the Tao celebrate the diversity of the myriad things. It is the differences you see everywhere that make life interesting. Imagine a world with only one kind of flower or one kind of fruit, and feel how grateful you are to not live in such a world.

The Tao Today

Out of the same spirit of gratitude, affirm the truth that others cannot, and should not, all be the same as you. After all, out of the countless humans who have walked the Earth, there has never been anyone quite like you. You are absolutely unique, and the many differences between you and others are there for you to explore, embrace and enjoy. We should celebrate our differences.

The Tao of Joy Every Day

~ Derek Lin